Being a good parent is probably the hardest job in the world. While you want to give your kids everything, you know that is not the right thing to do. The balance of giving and earning is tough. Then they get older. They can now make their own decisions, some good and some you question. But they are adults and you bite your lips, hoping they will ask and take your advice. Sometimes they do. Other times they don't. And you learn to live with both. You did your job. It is now up to them. You did the best you can do. That is all.