Judge a person by their actions and not by their words. And make sure you see enough of their actions before you make any decisions about them. We all have weak moments. We all say things at times, that we wish we hadn’t said. We are truly human and make mistakes. And when we don’t realize that, we have to think that the problem is with us and not everyone else. And don’t generalize about someone. Because we see a problem with one person, don’t assume the same for another of the same gender, race, religion or whatever. We are all unique and should be treated as such.